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Thursday, February 11, 2010 my eyes, they don't recognize you anymore

The boys have been on my back about my judgement lapse. They said I was too "easily duped". In response to their jibes...

I concur.

Of course the girls were more forgiving and gentler. I just wish I wasn't such a girl. I wish I put my foot down more often and not let emotions rule my head: Sent an elegant missive with cold politeness. Or alternatively, give way to raw caustic energy and tell this loser to shove it.

Said message was finally transmitted loud and clear this week. Buay tahan already. That kind of bad behaviour cannot be rewarded. The girls clapped me on my back, for the guts, i guess. And the boys grudgingly told me that my message was indeed loud & clear. Plus dignified.

I have never met such a bu yao lian; emotionally manipulative; rude; unrepentant; illogical; narrow-minded; un-steady (Robs' word) and (the icing on the cake), whipped person in my life.

Note to myself: Cannot have a next-time already. Very jialat to make such risky bad decisions again. Choose wisdom in future.