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Thursday, May 19, 2011 fuggeraboudit

New York for "Forget about it" or in more philosophical-speak "Live and let live". There are times when I'm caught in between two choices - to launch into an allout argument or to think beyond my indignant feelings and just breathe.

I choose the latter. Pick my battles wisely and I come out unscathed 99% of the time. Many people think the louder they speak and the more insults they throw, they are the winner. I'm not interested in winning. I'm more interested in not retreating like an injured animal, licking my wounds. For that, I do think that I'm smarter than you. Have a nice non-life, friend.